Big life decisions are rarely binary or instantaneous.

Moving out of home, quitting the day job, or ending a relationship – these are long-drawn-out decisions that take place over time.

In between the decision and outcomes lie the moments in between where we straddle two worlds. One world in which we feel like we made the right decision and another in which we feel like we made the wrong one.

But when it comes to complex decisions, there is no right or wrong – just decisions and consequences.

And as long as you know yourself, and you’ve taken the time to understand the other stakeholders before making the decision – the best we can do is to have faith that it was the right thing to do.